Swap sides in side-by-side mode?

This has become a point of severe frustration. In a zoom meeting, that is recorded, I, the host am on the right, my counter part is on the left. ALL WE WANT TO DO is to flip sides. He is on the right and I am on the left. I can not find out how to do this to save my own sanity. I've looked everywhere and tried everything I can see on zoom, but there are no answers or solutions I can find. PLEASE help.