Allow others to screen share without host in meeting - settings not working

I have a personal account. I have updated all the screen share settings so that non-hosts can share their screens. A friend uses my account to host a weekly session I am not in. Since we’re not under the same account I can’t add her as a co-host. We’ve tried all the settings. I have to join the meeting each week and turn on settings in the meeting for her to screen share. I’ve disabled two settings to allow sharing when guests are in meetings as some of our friends may not be signed into an account. We have created a new meeting to ensure the settings take effect going forward. From everything done, my impression is that I shouldn’t need to be in the meeting. But I have to go in every week and turn it on or else she can’t share her screen.