zoom cost me 2 sales calls this morning

when a person sets up a call with me, using my Calendly, in the invite is this zoom link   https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86524855787

I can't use that link to join my own meeting because its waiting for the host to join, I am logged in, either online or on desktop 

in the invite is also this link, https://zoom.us/j/6170105956?pwd=JWHhi7Ep9QI9UlPG83r2S6rDAeoLpl.1

when I used that link, I can start the meeting, however its not the meeting the other link is in 

can anyone tell me what is wrong?