Staying connected to a meeting with video on

Has anyone experienced starting a meeting, only to have your zoom window freeze and spontaneously close as soon as a guest joins the meeting. One window opens offering to share feedback with Zoom and then another opens and puts me back in the meeting, As long as I stop my video the meeting continues without interruption. I have video on for others with no negative impact. I have followed suggestions to update drivers, update Zoom, update Chrome. It doesn't happen for every meeting which makes it even harder to understand. Thanks for any insight you can share!