Meeting Reminders

I presently use Calendly to schedule my meeting with an integration with Zoom in my outlook calendar.  The attendee is able to schedule the meeting and the meeting shows up in my calendar in office 365.  When I check the meeting in my calendar it is there but not does not let me know if the attendee has responded "yes", "no", or "maybe"  I must send an additional attendee invite to get this functionality.

Additionally I do not think that my attendees receive reminders unless they have their own calendar do that.  How can I send a reminder to attendees 1 hour before a meeting though automation?